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I'm 35 and I just had p.i.v. sex. I feel like if more people started having sex later in life they would have a better understanding of how trust based sex is, and it wouldn't be treated so immaturely.

People act like sex or maybe the people they can sex with are/ is something detached from the rest of their lives. And for all the cisgender men that get blamed for mediocre sex, maybe consider there are better things you can do with your time than have sex with people that don't take it seriously - which is usually cisgender men, because there's less bad things that can happen to them if something messes up. 

Unless it's sex work. As of right now, I can't endorse anything other than that. Y'all please be safe out there. We need to get rid of FOSTA AND SOSTA so sex workers can operate safely online again. That shit didn't do anything to stop child trafficking. It only ran sex workers off the internet. 

Also, this isn't hate speech. I'm not saying be mean to them or treat them like less. They aren't hurt if people stop having sex with them.

And a lot of them have podcasts talking about how low value (cisgender) women are, anyway, so why have sex with somebody who thinks so low of you, and is most likely going to waste your time.

Just think about it. Also, consider how when dogs don't like humans based on gender most dogs dislike men. The dogs are on to something. 

And, I've said all this before, but now I've had p.i.v. sex and the following awkwardness and abdominal cramps. The level of trust that should be required to do this is someone is so underrated. There's absolutely no reason to do this with a stranger for free - no matter how many times you've done it. People are too fucking crazy and violent for that. And, sex workers need hazard pay/ insurance. 


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