Skip to main content

sex sucks

I'm 35 and I just had p.i.v. sex. I feel like if more people started having sex later in life they would have a better understanding of how trust based sex is, and it wouldn't be treated so immaturely.

People act like sex or maybe the people they can sex with are/ is something detached from the rest of their lives. And for all the cisgender men that get blamed for mediocre sex, maybe consider there are better things you can do with your time than have sex with people that don't take it seriously - which is usually cisgender men, because there's less bad things that can happen to them if something messes up. 

Unless it's sex work. As of right now, I can't endorse anything other than that. Y'all please be safe out there. We need to get rid of FOSTA AND SOSTA so sex workers can operate safely online again. That shit didn't do anything to stop child trafficking. It only ran sex workers off the internet. 

Also, this isn't hate speech. I'm not saying be mean to them or treat them like less. They aren't hurt if people stop having sex with them.

And a lot of them have podcasts talking about how low value (cisgender) women are, anyway, so why have sex with somebody who thinks so low of you, and is most likely going to waste your time.

Just think about it. Also, consider how when dogs don't like humans based on gender most dogs dislike men. The dogs are on to something. 

And, I've said all this before, but now I've had p.i.v. sex and the following awkwardness and abdominal cramps. The level of trust that should be required to do this is someone is so underrated. There's absolutely no reason to do this with a stranger for free - no matter how many times you've done it. People are too fucking crazy and violent for that. And, sex workers need hazard pay/ insurance. 


Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Takoda Institute and adult education program REVIEW

The video: https://youtu.be/Uxcfu9c28YM this is a review of The takoda Institute adult education on Franklin avenue in Minneapolis Minnesota! Availability - they have reasonable daytime hours, 8 - 3 and 4. Accessibility - as someone who admittedly isn't disabled, I would say that the building is easy to navigate with wide hallways and a lot of movable furniture. The doorways do seem kind of narrow to me, so I don't know how someone with wheelchair would get into some of the rooms. But if someone who isn't wheelchair-bound I don't know what the necessary with is. But they feel narrow to me is an able-bodied person. Location - the main office in a lot of the adult education programs in a right on cedar and Franklin. These are bus routes blue Line, 22, 2, 67, and a 9 mainly. I would say that's a great location with high Public transportation traffic. cedar avenue and Franklin avenue are not so great during rush hour for personal vehicles. they do have their own parking...
Post a Comment
Read more

Facebook Instagram and WhatsApp

 A lot of you probably didn't notice, but Facebook Instagram and WhatsApp went down yesterday because the dsn a and AAA records were attacked. I don't have a full understanding of what that means, but given that the domains became available for purchase, I can make context clues based on the information I already have with my short time as a self-proclaimed internet historian. I'm also the type of person that is more interested in why this happened because what happened is a lot simpler to explain. What's not going to be so simple to explain but the media is going to try to explain anyway are the Pandora papers. The long records of a former employee recording all of Facebook's wrongdoings. I was one of the many watching the highlights of Facebook's hearing, but I wasn't watching them in full like many others. If you weren't involved at all, but you're getting involved now, you're about to learn a lot from the summaries of the Pandora...
Post a Comment
Read more

Racism, Tim Burton, and Beetlejuice Beetlejuice

A lot of people have forgotten about this, but a years ago, Tim Burton said that he doesn't cast black people because race has nothing to do with the context of any of his movies.  I think this happened after Beetlejuice 1988. Black people were casted as football players in the afterlife. That makes sense. Most football players are black. We figured out decades later why that's problematic with the Kaepernick situation. Entertainment is all black people are allowed to have so when an entertainer has a political opinion it's easy to tell them to shut up. "Dance, monkey! Dance!" narrative. But with Beetlejuice Beetlejuice having that soul train scene after he said it, the context tells me that black people are allowed to exist in Tim Burton's aesthetic if they are not stereotypical singing dancing caricatures.  A lot of (white) people will argue that Tim Burton isn't racist because he casted a Latina to play Astrid. The problem with that is a lot of Mexicans...
Post a Comment
Read more